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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 55 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 48 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 72 Comments



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3 Signs that It’s Time to Get Some Help for Your Troubled Marriage

It’s unfortunate, but many people don’t seek help for their marriages because they believe they can manage things on their own. It may seem noble to decide that you can put in the work to improve your marriage without anyone else being involved, but it’s rarely that simple. There is nothing noble about refusing help Keep Reading →

3 Reasons Children are Worth the Headache

As a mother of three, every now and then I will get the question from child-free friends or couples: Is having children worth it? I’ve realized that my answer isn’t necessarily what whomever I’m talking to expects or what most would say. I’m not one of those mothers who says “oh it’s so hard but Keep Reading →

Dictatorship or Democracy? Are you Leading Your Family or Ruling Over Them?

One of the things I have learned in married life is how important the decision making process is.  When we are single, individually, we are the only person who has to deal with the consequences of our actions and decisions.  Once we are married, we have to consider the thoughts, needs and desires of others.  Keep Reading →

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