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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 55 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 48 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 72 Comments



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5 Signs that You’re With a Mama’s Boy and How to Handle it

I LOVE MY MAMA so trust me, I know what a mother’s love feels like. As men that feeling never gets old, but we have to learn when to let go. I felt the need to write this piece because I have to admit that one of the top 5 issues that women come to Keep Reading →

Can Being “Too Independent” Leave a Woman Looking for Love?

Dear Dr. Buckingham, I am having a hard time bonding with men who are good to me and cater to me. I have been single for most of my adult life and I have been told that men find it difficult to relate to me because I come across as being too independent. As a Keep Reading →

5 Things Every Woman Needs to be Happy in Her Marriage

Having a happy marriage shouldn’t feel like some elusive goal. Despite all the negativity you may hear or see, happy marriages do exist. They don’t just happen by chance, though. A happy marriage is something that happens when each partner is willing to do some individual work, and together the couple is willing to work Keep Reading →

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