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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 38 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 33 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 60 Comments



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Let’s Be Friends: Establishing a Friendship with Your Ex-Spouse

A few months ago I was asked to help a divorced couple re-establish a friendship with each other. My first thought was, umm, I am not really familiar with this. But then I thought, surely there are some resources out there that I can pull from to give them some guidance. Well, quite a few Keep Reading →

Recipe: Dark Chocolate Strawberry Banana Ice Cream Made Healthy And Gluten & Dairy Free!

Homemade Ice Cream using only fruit, coconut milk and dark chocolate?  Healthy Ice Cream and GLUTEN & DAIRY FREE!  I love Cherry Garcia from Ben & Jerry’s Ice Cream so this is my twist, it’s the fruit with the chocolate chunks that made me say WHOOP WHOOP! Yep I have officially created a new addiction Keep Reading →

5 Ways to Use Your Phone To Keep the Communication and Sexiness Flowing In Your Marriage

I will be married for two years this November. Super stoked. Getting to a place of peace, respect, and intimacy, though, took a lot of deliberate practice, a lot of mistakes, and a lot of trial and error. (Anyone that says that marriage should be effortless and not require work needs to take a seat…all Keep Reading →

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