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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 60 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 58 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 75 Comments



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The One Reason I’m Terrified of Having Another Child With My Wife

My three year old son is a maniac – and I love him to death for it. Four years ago when my wife and I learned we were expecting our first child, we weren’t jumping up and down for joy. We didn’t plan for it, and felt our new blessing couldn’t have come at more Keep Reading →

5 Ways to Protect Our Teens from Unhealthy Relationships

I recently came across the Karrueche Tran exclusive interview with Iyanla Vanzant and it caused me to really think about our young folks, although she is an adult, and their unhealthy relationships. I am not even sure if this young woman really understands what love is suppose to feel like. Were the lessons she was taught Keep Reading →

4 Ways to Restore Intimacy After a Life Changing Diagnosis

Couples often unconsciously sacrifice intimacy as they struggle with juggling careers, kids, and finances. The daily stress caused by these challenges slowly begins to decrease the passion, spontaneity, and romance in their relationships; which ultimately create small intimacy road blocks.  If these road blocks go unchecked, over time, they turn into full blown intimacy barricades. Keep Reading →

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