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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 41 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 36 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 63 Comments



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How I Keep Crazy to a Minimum During the Holidays

You made it through Thanksgiving, but it’s not over yet! The holiday season is still in full swing and there’s still plenty of shopping, cooking and family time left in the year, but it doesn’t have to be stressful. Here are some tips to save you from snatching your hair out during the holiday hustle Keep Reading →

7 Reasons Not to Keep the Peace in Your Marriage

At my bridal shower, my guests filled out note cards of advice. One said “know when to keep your peace and when to stand your ground, and make sure your fights count.” I had no idea what that advice meant entering my marriage. Over time, though, it has become something I’ve come back to over Keep Reading →

Recipe: Rosemary Salmon that Everyone Should Try Tonight!

Sometimes you need meals that taste like you put alot of thought into it, but you really made it without breaking a sweat. This is one of those dishes. For me, salmon is one of those fish I could literally eat every day. I’ve also found that many people (not all) that say they don’t like Keep Reading →

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