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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 60 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 58 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 75 Comments



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Why I’ll Never Sleep on the Couch After an Argument

It is an agreed fact that 100% of married couples find themselves disagreeing about an issue at some point.  There is nothing wrong with conflict because according to Dr. Gary Smalley, conflict is a normal part of any relationship, the key is to learn how to resolve them without emotional injury.” When my wife and Keep Reading →

Here’s How to Determine if You are Giving the Best Version of Yourself to Your Family

As moms and wives we often say that we give our family everything we’ve got. Giving of ourselves until we are depleted is often talked about like some badge of honor women should wear. But is living like this really what’s best for our families—or ourselves? Are we truly there for them in the way Keep Reading →

How the Fear of Rejection Can Stunt Your Growth and Keep You Single

The word says that God is love and His perfect love casts out all fear. We may find ourselves in a fearful place where taking a risk in being rejected keeps us from trying. When it comes to the single life and dating, we have to take these risks every time we go out. It’s Keep Reading →

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