WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY?

OK SO I WAS DISCUSSING THE NEW CIARA VIDEO AND SONG WHICH BASICALLY HAS HER SHOWING HOW GOOD SHE RIDES THE "BEAT".......AND OF COURSE SINCE THE OTHER PERSON I WAS DISCUSSING IT WITH WAS A MAN, HE FELT LIKE "YEAH" THAT'S WHAT'S UP. WOMEN NEED TO WATCH IT AND LEARN SOMETHIN. TAKE IT BACK TO YOUR MAN AND HOOK HIM UP. NOW I PERSONALLY DON'T LIKE THE DIRECTION THAT CIARA IS GOING WITH HER MUSIC OR VIDEOS..I PERSONALLY AM GETTING TIRED OF FEMALES GETTING NAKED AND SELLING THEIR BODIES BASICALLY. BUT WHAT REALLY IRRITATED ME WAS HOW HE WAS LIKE "LEARN SOMETHING". NOW MY THING IS WHERE IS OUR SONG FROM A MAN TEACHING YOU HOW TO DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO GET ME OFF. OR TO GIVE YOU TIPS ON HOW TO HIT THAT G SPOT, OR FIND THE AREAS OF ME THAT GET ME THERE. WHY IS IT THAT WE ARE ALWAYS THE ONES NEEDING TO WATCH INSTRUCTIONAL VIDEOS OR OLD PORNOS TO STIMULATE THEM, WHEN THEY DON'T DO THE SAME WHEN THEY DON'T COME CORRECT.

NOT TO MENTION THAT HALF OF THEM DON'T EVEN DESERVE THAT. I MEAN WHAT HAVE YOU DONE FOR ME LATELY THAT MAKES ME WANT TO GO AND GET RIDING LESSONS FROM TWENTY SOMETHING CIARA. THAT SEEMS A LOT ONE-SIDED IF YOU ASK ME.

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Comment by Aja Graydon Dantzler on May 10, 2010 at 7:11pm: WOW. YOU COVERED A COUPLE OF ISSUES HERE. OUR HISTORY AS BLACK WOMEN IN THIS COUNTRY HAS ALWAYS PORTRAYED US AS OVER SEXED AND OBJECTS TO BE USED SIMPLY FOR THAT, SO HUNDREDS OF YEARS OF PROGRAMING AND STEREOTYPES REARING THEIR UGLY HEAD IN A MUSIC VIDEO DOESN'T SURPRISE ME. IT IS HARD TO WATCH ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU KNOW THAT OUR PRECIOUS YOUNG GIRLS WILL BE WATCHING AS WELL. OWNING YOUR SEXUALITY AS AN ENTERTAINER IS ALWAYS RISKY BECAUSE YOU NEVER REALLY OWN IT. YOU ARE SELLING IT FOR SOMEONE ELSES PROFIT FOR THE MOST PART SINCE ARTISTS DO NOT GET THE MAJORITY OF THE MONEY FROM RECORD SALES, UNFORTUNATELY THAT SOUND FRIGHTENINGLY LIKE ANOTHER OLD BUSINESS. AS FAR AS GETTING "INSTRUCTION", GIRL U SHOULD'VE JUST LAUGHED AT THAT. WOMEN DO HAVE SOME UNREALISTIC IMAGES TO LIVE UP TO BUT SO DO MEN. THEY'RE JUST ABOUT MONEY , NOT SEX. ALOT OF MALE ARTISTS OUT THERE ARE SENDING THIS MESSAGE TO OUR MEN THAT IF THEY ARE NOT RICH THEY ARE WORTHLESS. LOTS OF BAD MESSAGES OUT THERE. I PERSONALLY DON'T WANNA HEAR ANY SINGER TELL ME OR MY HUSBAND HOW TO GET DOWN, JUST A LITTLE SOMETHING TO SET THE MOOD WILL DO.