Congratulations Fatin for being brave enough and thoughtful enough to go through with your vasectomy. I am trying to convince my second husband to do the same. My first did it with no problems and everything still worked the same.

It is an easier, quicker process for the man than for the woman. It's an outpatient surgery for 20 minutes on a Friday and by Monday your UP and working again. We, on the other hand, have to wait weeks to recover because it's an invasive surgery. I opted not to have my tubes tied but instead got an IUD, big mistake. Aja be happy you didn't get an IUD. It for me gave me 20lbs that I didn't ask for, acne and frequent bouts of depression. I hated it!

Again, congrats to you both on your decision!