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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 60 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 58 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 75 Comments



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5 Ways Pride is Keeping You Away from Love, Married or Single

“And I will swallow my pride, you’re the one that I love and I’m saying goodbye…say something I’m giving up on you….” As I listened to these lyrics from Ian Axel in his song “Say Something.” When I heard the vulnerability in his tone, it hit me. What hit me is that pride is not Keep Reading →

The One Main Reason Why I Stay with My Husband and it’s Not Love

Let me start off by saying that I have a lot more than one reason for staying with the man I married. Frankly, if we were together for just one reason, I think things would have fallen apart a long time ago. But when I look at our marriage and what it means to me, Keep Reading →

Customer Receives Racial Slur Printed on Receipt

By Latoya Cross Liryca Branch, a 33-year-old Black woman, was eating lunch with three coworkers, also Black at Huck Finn’s Café in New Orleans. Nothing out of the norm, there, right? Only an issue ensued when Branch received the bill and saw the word ‘N—–‘ splattered in capital letters across her check in between her food items. Keep Reading →

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