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The Truth About Marriage

     It doesn't suck!!! It also isn't the answer to eternal happiness for every single person either. Fact of the matter is it is probably a place that reflects most on the very ugly truth about onself and the success of it is directly related to how much of your shit you are willing to own up to. Marriage is a mirror but it is likely when your mate shows you who you are, you won't believe or except it. So compassion and trust is essential. In order to not take it really hard you gotta trust…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 21, 2012 at 4:30pm — 41 Comments

Birthdays and Crying the blues

 So I returned from vacation this year on my birthday. 34 baby. I didn't feel different in fact the infamous 30 had come and gone and I'm the same girl. I walked in the house to children who missed me...a lot. They sat me down in a chair and showered me with birthday cards. Now this was the part I was looking forward to, a parade of crafty creations laden with glitter and misspelled words.Much to my surprise the first card arrived and it was store bought. My mother said, "They picked…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on October 7, 2012 at 12:53pm — 35 Comments

She's Backkkkk......

I haven't written one of these in over a year. You can blame it on my schedule, home life or even the distraction of social networks that require a much shorter attention span. No matter the reason, I decided to approach it a little different and oddly enough it was a lover's quarrel between me and the hubs that inspired me. While THOUROUGHLY enjoying a rare vacation together we tried to decide how we would use this newly acquired free time. I wanted to call the concierge, make reservations,…


Posted by Aja Graydon Dantzler on September 24, 2012 at 11:10am — 63 Comments



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How I Know “Ferguson” Will Happen Again, and Again, and Again Unless We Take These Steps to Stop It!

Today, many of us are still grappling with the Michael Brown verdict. We are wondering how once again we asked the question of whether black men are valuable in this country, and were once again met with ‘no’ as an answer. But even sadder than the devastation felt after the Michael Brown verdict, is the Keep Reading →

9 Black Owned Etsy Shops for Cyber Monday Shopping

Thanksgiving is upon us, which means Thanksgiving weekend is here too. Black Friday sales have become the part two to our holiday. Unfortunately, with all the dangers of being mobbed in the electronics section, the holiday weekend is a great time to support small businesses. Cyber Monday, the close cousin of Black Friday, is especially Keep Reading →

3 Traits of Commitment from a Man’s Perspective

How should those of us in committed relationships take steps to “move forward?”  Let’s touch on what things we should consider as we decide whether we want to commit to take our relationships to the next level. 1. Are we Better Together? We often hear it said that men are afraid of commitment.  There may Keep Reading →

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